You have established a fairly strong relationship online. But, there are thousands of miles between you, and to top it off there is a three hour time difference! You find yourself frustrated most of the time.

You will have to «creatively» and «mentally» occupy his thoughts as much as possible.

By using your imagination, you can make up for the mileage distance, and it is not hard to do.

Create a romantic and slightly erotic «story» and email parts of the story each night. I call it my Adult Bedtime Story. If you don’t feel you have the creative skills to do this, then you may have to cheat a little.

Close your eyes…think of your favorite movie scene that was romantic and or erotic. Replay it in your mind…then just write it out! Change the setting and the characters, and there you have it. Let that be your foundation…just continue to add to it. It can go on forever…

Let’s say it starts with the two of you meeting while walking your dogs. Later, you both decide on a picnic in a very secluded area. Think of it this way: if you had the opportunity to meet him right now in a secluded area of a park, what would you do? Once you have that, just write it down.

What if…he invites you to dinner at a formal restaurant…he picks you up…you turn your back to him as he fastens your necklace for you…(you can take this scenario and make it as romantic and erotic as you like!)

I suggest sending a «romantic» paragraph or two each night. Eventually working your way up to a couple of «hot» paragraphs…and eventually you might want to send an «erotic» paragraph.

Not only will you be on his mind before he falls asleep, you will also stay on his mind the following day!

Please make sure you know the recipient of your story well. They must understand that this is just erotic/romantic fun…and that you are not a sex fiend!

Get a head start…start writing!

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MODE of Cosmic Therapy: Transcendent Tones: Our Soul’s Sexuality
All human beings are attracted to, fascinated by and most especially unconsciously responsive to music. Our innate music is distinctly unfathomably sexual in nature. It drives us to the people we are to be involved with. Music will not lead us astray, ever. Our most intimate relationships (whether brief or long) are governed, swayed, influenced and determined by the compulsory attracting tune of our indelibly ingrained music. The resounding sensual transcendent tones dictate a path not unlike a precise marked laser beam unseen by the naked eye. The ones (mates) for us are governed and dictated by that unquestionable lyrical sound. (Tones, inflections rhythm, style, harmony, chords, beats, cadences, crescendos, etc) We are driven by and geared toward specific sexual musical avenues of divine experience (intercourse) in the unlikely unexpected expression of our erotic interactions as surely as one breathes oxygen in order to stay alive. Unearthed sounds of blistering bliss resonate from the bottomless depth of one’s feet in search of the unreachable partner in our sensuous sexual footing.

The form of flesh (human being) in which appears to subdue/ arouse/encase us will certainly confuse as we try to uncover discernable reasons for the onslaught of tantalizing attraction. The things we do and the things we avoid when at first getting in involved continue to amaze/amuse and ameliorate. But, try as we must, we will never satisfy the incessant urge to press onward into boulevards of inescapable unexplained embarrassing/awkward passionate activity which most often times leads to opening realms of unimaginable sexual opportunity/experience/memories.

Without knowing or comprehending the complexity involved, music is mathematically structured in a way that seems implausible to any who would not make a committed study of it. The result far exceeds the beauty contained but not in the way one suspects. That which appears to be existent, in fact, results in the very opposite of the apparent reality it sustains. So are the attractions in human beings controlled and cajoled by and through the sexual musical stirrings resonated in the core of their beings. The concept of order instilled throughout structured harmony is fraught with inestimable chaos. That which appears to be the most still is the most vibrant. This undeniable confirmation mockingly stares us all in the face as the ineffable relationship riddle (physical attraction) to be solved. The sexuality of music can not be denied. It is vibrantly primal in its overwhelming illusive stimulating expression. It draws and subdues like a fluted cobra.

When we consider the overwhelming ineffectual ability to withstand the incurable draw of sexuality buried in music, how then do we establish and maintain our lies, accusations, recriminations, deceptions, and ridiculous postulations to support our prefabricated views regarding the reasons we attract one another? Or why we stay involved or leave? The music of one’s erotic soul can not be resisted or denied. And, by not venturing any further than what is necessary to sustain our current modes of preferred sense of security in our relationships, we shrivel while the music in fades to a monotonous droll. By refuting this understated sexual musical reality, nothing but a subterfuge of confusion, anger and resentment will continue long after the involvement is over.

We are innately guided to the sphere of celestial unconquerable perfectly orchestrated union in our sexual involvements. When the soul’s music is right between us, it moves us beyond all calculation or definition. We are at the mercy of its deliberate beckon call. No need to fight the inevitable. We must accept the possibility of following like a Blind Love Slave to our appointed destiny. But, instead of investigating the possibility, we argue. Instead of studying, we defend outdated moral ideas simply because that’s how we were taught. Instead of embracing totally new enlightened theories, we balk at their ridiculous presumptions. We seek in vain to contrive and control our involved worlds based on faulty cherished ideas of desired selfish conviction. Yet, unions break apart while mysterious unobvious relationships join and in the meantime hurt, blame and guilt are cast, harshly.

However, the sacred music within will not be placated by terminal condolences. We must eventually answer the call of the inward dominating tone of unmistakable sexual truth that resides within. We will not be able to stifle its inexplicable sensations of erotic lustful sounds of sublime surrender. We were born with an exact tune playing endlessly of which nothing, nobody or no thing can gratify except that which it was written for. The song of the soul is perilous, ruthless and undoubtedly unashamedly pure! There is an inexorably uniquely defined law of music which maintains the actions of the sexual human organism. Without its subversive melody and chord structure, we would dissolve into the ethers. Remember: Nothing about us is calm. Nothing in our nature is accepting or placid. The very thought that we open our eyes in this dimension of reality is a rebellious act of defiance. We are in constant revolt in order to live. We are inherently consumed with the musical notation resonating in every breath thrust on/through us.

We maintain a subtle indifference to everything, though it will take light years for us to ever voice that truth with conviction. We vibrate to a matchless ubiquitous sacred sexual sound which disintegrates the moment we recognize it. We don’t find the answers to our supposed problems regarding relationships because we ask the wrong questions. We seek to be satisfied by another tune. We expect to attract while not singing our song. The harmonious song offered is received as inharmonious because we add our predetermined interpretation to it. In other words, we expect something else. When the dissonant cadences appear, we interpret them as our being denied or having to wait unnecessarily, instead of the melodious song structure leading us to the next rapturous measure. . Becoming disappointed and/or impatient, we cast aside the non-ceasing melodious sensuous luring sensation in exchange for futile time-wasting energy. We exhaust ourselves in a ridiculous half-hearted unmotivated unstirred passionate attempt to dance to the music of another’s music.

Instead of ‘paying attention’ to the inert directional meaning attached in the temporal cessation of the unerring sacred sexual sound, we jump to senseless irrational conclusions which in no way deflect its inherent impression. We grow frantically depressed, pushing seething anger beneath a surface of ‘accepting docility.’ If we would but recognize, relate, appreciate and assimilate the ‘dry spots’ in our lives, with the same reverence we so easily/eagerly assign and extend to fervent apparent bountiful occasions, a creatively obvious orchestrated sensual erotic benevolence would reverberate exponentially.

Creative artistic expression is directly linked to the freedom expressed in our copious sexual nature. Music explores, liberates and releases this undomesticated sacred energy! Without its immeasurable expression, we, along with our attracting ability, withers, shrivels and shrinks like water soaked hands. Our innate soul will do with us as she wills according to the rhythmic pattern of pleasure filled destiny desired/ordered. We can do no better than surrender to the hypnotically enticing tempo and follow inherent suit in the ‘natural and convenient’ musical pattern of sexual rhythm exercised.
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Sheer lingerie comes in a variety of styles. You could go as elaborate as a sexy teddy with delicate embroidery or as simple as a matching set of sheer panties and bra. While it’s fun to go all out and get the most excitement out of your lingerie, simple pieces can be just as erotic, if not more erotic, than the more detail-oriented ones. More often than not, sheer lingerie can be worn underneath your clothes, giving you that sexy boost throughout the day.

Many of today’s wardrobe choices require very specific brassieres: ones that cross in the back, convert to a halter top, or have the option of going strapless. This same phenomenon is apparent in undergarment choices as well, since you may have to avoid panty lines by wearing a thong or nip in your waist with a durable waspie. While these types of undergarments are fine for occasional use, you should also consider wearing clothes that allow for more freedom underneath. When you don’t have to worry about the type of bra and panties you have on, you can boost your confidence and feel your best by wearing something sheer, something bejeweled, or something that is pure sex.

Wearing sexy sheer lingerie is fun not only in the bedroom, but at the office, too. It’s fun to find a sexy sheer set, such as a matching brassier and panty, that you can wear them underneath your work clothes. If you’re wearing a pair of black slacks and button-up blouse, what’s better to wear underneath it than a sheer black brassier with matching sheer thongs? With no panty lines, you’ll feel a little a little risqué all day long. Being able to wear something sexy and light underneath your clothes instead of that boring 18-hour bra and practical panty can give you the edge you need the entire day. Everyone will see you glowing and confident and they’ll want to know why.

By taking your exotic lingerie with you wherever you go, you are essentially turning your everyday activities into vamped-up, prolonged foreplay. You can keep this secret to yourself and enjoy the heightened sensations, or you can inform your loved one of exactly what will be going on beneath your clothes all day long. Rare is the man who can put this kind of image out of his mind for very long. Whether you are getting ready for a day at the office or primping for a date you won’t soon forget, sheer lingerie worn in place of your standard undergarments will provide you with all the tools you need to become a confident, sexy seductress.

Amanda Cotterill has been involved in the sexy lingerie uk market for many years. This article outlines the benefits of women wearing sexy bustiers as if that needed much explaining! Please include this credit if you use this article.

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Baby doll lingerie consists of a short nightie worn with matching panties. Baby doll lingerie has a reputation for being sweet and innocent. Guess what? It can be some of the most risqué lingerie around. Babydolls can be see-through, low-cut, and midriff-baring. Not only are they sexy, they’re also incredibly flattering.
So if you’re on the prowl for risqué lingerie, don’t pass up the babydoll. For those women who love to show a lot of skin, you can find babydolls that are open all the way down with only a small tie in the front to keep it closed. For an extra erotic look, buy a babydoll with a coordinating g-string. Want to show off that g-string? Buy a babydoll that’s cut up high in the back.
Do you like a lot of choices in your adult exotic lingerie? Baby doll lingerie comes in an almost countless variety of styles. There are tops that go down to your waist and tops that bare your tummy. You can find babydolls with halter tops, adjustable spaghetti straps, or fun criss-cross straps.
And there are colors galore! When it comes to any type of adult exotic lingerie, red and black are the old stand-bys. But you’ll always look your best when you’re wearing a color that makes you feel gorgeous and confident. Not every woman feels that red and black complement her skin tone. Are you a spring? A pale pink babydoll is perfect. A deep turquoise will look lovely on a summer. For the fall ladies, try cream or beige.
As mentioned above, babydolls are a favorite in adult exotic lingerie because they look great on every woman. The nightie is long enough to hide any parts of your body you don’t particularly love. Babydoll tops can be either loose or tight-fitting. You can choose the style that looks best on your body. The choice between a thong or bikini-style panties lets you decide what makes you feel prettiest.
One of the great things about baby doll lingerie is the attention to details. A babydoll is always beautifully embellished, some with ribbons and bows, others with lace. Also, the fabric selection for babydolls is excellent. Want a sheer babydoll? You’ve got it! Want a lace babydoll? You can get one!

A lace babydoll can be either sweet or sultry. There are lace babydolls that come in a stretchy, sheer lace fabric. Or, you can buy a lace baby doll that’s actually a satin or silk with lots of beautiful lace trim and details.

The sheer babydoll is a popular choice because it’s simultaneously innocent and naughty. The see-through fabric makes this cutie of a nightie an erotic dish. There’s more than one type of sheer babydoll. Some are completely sheer, while others feature satin cups or silk undies. You can go with a sheer chiffon or see-through lace.

Baby doll lingerie is perfect for special occasions. However, it’s also a beautiful and comfortable alternative to your typical pajamas. It’s easy to overlook the importance of feeling sexy and sensual when you go to bed. First, it’s sure to do the trick if you’re trying to drop some subtle hints! But more importantly, every woman should look and feel pretty just for herself.

Amanda Cotterill has been involved in the erotic lingerie uk market for many years. This article outlines the benefits of women wearing baby doll lingerie
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Mode of Cosmic Fragrance Therapy

Most of us would agree that human beings are guided, controlled, dictated and governed by subconscious desires that we are ‘more than likely’ unaware. Not only are we ignorant of the significance attached to ‘all too obvious clues’, promptings, implications, distinctions, and surprising consequences but more importantly we, sometimes, [more often than not] ignore or deny much to our chagrin, those sensations which result in «weird feelings» as such, In other words, we discount the sensations without trusting our first instinct. These hidden desires, not only, motivate, encourage, confuse, constrict, dissuade, and support decisions and/actions we probably don’t properly understand or appreciate fully, at the time, but we attempt to fill and justify the awkward space with anything available or convenient to us at the moment.. Furthermore, we try to interpret the meanings of our reactions to the various situations with only half the information supplied, which only complicates the already muffled scenario.

More than likely, these same underlying unclear nudging prompters show up at the least likely places in blatant emotional displays that shock us, or at the very least cause us to ponder ‘silent embarrassing or guilt-ridden thoughts of fantasy or disgrace’. In these moments of perplexing confidential personal confrontations, we dare not utter our private thoughts aloud. But, while we try to process the uncomely thoughts, we are forced to ask ourselves the question: «where did those feelings come from or WHY did I think that?.» Some may interpret these unexpected uncomfortable sensations as natural ATTRACTION. Others, however, are bombarded with expressing unsettling words that don’t make one bit of sense. Regardless of how the feelings are explained away or reasoned out, the fact remains that we respond emotionally to things according to unknown factors lodged somewhere deep between the recesses of our memories and the current activities in the environment.

At times, we are simply baffled by certain reactions which cause us to either be repelled or drawn immediately to certain people, places and events. It’s something that happens of itself. We know instinctively whether we like something or we don’t! No if, ands, or buts about it. We just plain KNOW! We just can’t say WHY we do. According to Sigmund Freud, «The quickest way to trigger an emotional response is with scent.» I am convinced current research also strongly suggests that the power of scent is the single most influencing factor in determining a person’s predispositions. You don’t have understand why something or someone appeals to you, or not, but you do have to respond to those initial stirrings in order to discover more about the apparent mystery. In fact, you are powerless to do otherwise.

Thus, begins the challenge of paradoxical pursuit. Following an individual scent that has lured you. Like a Blue Tick hound on the ‘hot’ chase of a raccoon, the object of your affection will soon be treed, you hope. The pursuit involves the old ‘cat and mouse’ chase of ambiguity and, at first, secrecy. Something of an ethereal nature has been set in motion to unlock the door into the unknown aspects of yourself to reveal veiled motivations unknown to you at the time. It will take the complexity of the involvement to unravel, disclose and address various features which make you who you are. These facets will be brought to surface and reflected in the unique relationships, circumstances and people you choose to get involved with. This illogical quest for the other is divine in nature. How could it be otherwise?

Some of you may say that attraction to certain relationships is obvious. [Nothing very mysterious, at all.}The 'all too common' desperate seed of loneliness, boredom, and/or restlessness begins to stir pushing its way to the surface seeking union. And, I say "I beg to differ." Holding at bay that apparent lame excuse, something far more inexplicable is at work. Something beneath the obvious that is pulling your strings. What could that mysterious impetus be? SCENT. That's right. The smell of the encounter has inadvertently caught your nose. And, like that same Blue Tick hound in heat, you're fast on the trail of your new found fascination no matter where it leads. No matter the briars, brambles and overgrown weeds; nothing will stop you (short of debilitating illness) in capturing and maintaining the passionate sensual aroma which has so concretely arisen in your life. This Divinely manufactured indelibly imprinted scent locks onto its duplicate with 'no holds barred.' "IT" is the honing apparatus of delirious pleasure sought and fulfilled in sacred union.

There's an ongoing debate with chemists as to whether scent is triggered by receptors or vibrations. {Another lengthy article of discussion for another time} Either way, the point remains: certain fragrances work specifically for you and only YOU! Imagine walking into a Bakery where several different delicious aromas linger in the air. Notice how you immediately are drawn to a specific scent. Nothing else will satisfy. The same exacting experience happens when you meet a designated person on your path. Although you may not immediately become aware of it; the innate scent of that individual grabs your 'gut level' attention, filtering and eliciting uncontrollable emotions. You can't get him/her out of your mind. A deliberate act of the Divine in operation using a distinctive fragrance to attract or repel.

Preferred scent is something incredibly difficult to explain or comprehend. Bottom LINE: You are able to detect, without a moment's hesitation, a fragrance you love or despise. You just know! It's generative passion at work. Sort of magical, I guess. Anyway, enhancing, enlivening, and accentuating our natural scent encourages an overall sense of well-being. [A Plugged in feeling, unresponsive to anything else]. Remember and never forget: WE ARE PLEASURE SEEKING CREATURES. We feel better (pleasure-full) about ourselves when we know we smell good {desirable}. Here’s the deal for real: smell great, feel good, travel far, stay late.

We all possess a certain celestial flavor! My flavor is not your flavor nor can it be duplicated by you or anyone else. Its called being ‘tuned in’ and ‘turned on.’ Yes, it’s sexually sensual in nature because we are designed that way. But, more than that, it’s spiritual in premise. Sexuality is the highest form of spirituality available to mankind, remember? We start at the lowest rung of the ladder (whatever interests us) and proceed upwards. All creativity is sexual in expression. Art, music, drama, and the written word, most especially. We possess instinctual sensual drives that are geared to gravitate to the necessary experiences we need. We start by being attracted to someone or something. We like the «smell» of it because we generated the erotic mating scent to begin with.

Of course, it also has to do with us procreating the Earth but, nonetheless, the divine subliminal urge encompasses far more than meets the eyes and nose, so to speak. Sacred scent, perfume of the gods, instilled in us prompts us to act for our soul’s experience (assignment). We, as human beings, are propelled to discover who we are, what we want, and for what purpose we inhabit the planet. Without instinctual sexual appeal, little would be accomplished on the journey towards self-evolvement, self-actualization or self-fulfillment.

Each person expresses his/her divine will in various ways but all imbued sexual energy is released in music, drama, art the written and spoken word through intercourse with it. No, you do not have to be viewed as an artist {which, in fact, you are} or musician or actor, or author. Every conscious or unconscious stroke you make with your arms, legs, hands, head, feet or body exemplifies the artistic display of your unique divine sexual energy. Every word you utter screams in full animation the sensual tones of divine sexual scented expression.

There’s no way to get away from it: you are the walking embodiment of fragrant god humanly expressed. This sacred fragrant energy, of which we all possess, never ages or diminishes. It remains constant and vibrantly aromatically youthful throughout our entire life. To deny its fullest erotic expression of creative activity causes us all sorts of problems. (Physical and mental) People tend to barricade sexual energy in the most limited of forms. They usually define it as ‘making love’ which of course it is. However, sex does not begin in the bedroom. It begins with a sacred whiff. It travels wide and far! In every encounter imaginable. You are expressing and using sweet-smelling sexual energy. How can it possibly be a separate part of you? If you smile, it’s there. If you raise your voice, it’s there. If you consume a delicious meal, it’s there. When you actively engage in your chosen field of work, it’s there. When you read a book, it’s there. When you view a flower, look at a sunset, tell someone you care, it’s there. When you work on a problem to solve, it’s there. The Divine Scent precedes you and sustains you.

It rules you and everything you do because it is none other than the unmistakable omnificent Divine Creative scented force {Ineffable Gratifying Sacred Sensual Sexual Perfume) of the universe. Nothing exists without it. Nothing. You move, breathe and have your being in it. There is no doubt that it «Sex Instinct» has been distorted, twisted, deformed, disfigured, sublimated, subverted and denied but it is still there strong and pure, innocent. If the words: «Make love to God and to life» causes you to flinch, maybe you need to broaden your horizons and expand your mind’s parameters concerning this delightful perfumed divine sacred energy.

To live reverently involves passion. In order to evoke passion, you must recognize and embrace your own divine expression of god’s magnificent fragrant energy flowing through you. Don’t be afraid of it’s multi-fashioned multi-colored splendor. The smell of God paves the way for you in your daily walk. This awe-inspiring life giving sensually erotic power remains true in you while you are busily resisting, rebelling, defending, or justifying its immobile expression. It pulsates patiently and unceasingly in you while the rest of your pitiful unexpressed creative life corrodes away. Arise, awake, arouse the animally aromatic SUPREME WILL to guide your feet in unutterable pleasure divine. Appreciate its lofty sweet-smelling intoxicating domain. Turn up the powerfully erotic fragrance and be filled to capacity with the unquenchable sublime.
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